Xmas Be Kind T-Shirt Navy Shirts Selfawear

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She brings the plates over before you've finished your sentence. She tops up your glass without being asked. She's already thought about the parking, the dietary thing, the cousin who struggles with big groups.

No one told her to. She just does.

This shirt is for her. For you. For the one who knows that Christmas isn't really about the 25th, it's about the way you make people feel every time they walk through your door.

Kindness does something real. It lowers your cortisol, lifts the people around you, and builds the kind of warmth that outlasts the decorations by months. Studies confirm it. The people in your life already feel it.

Xmas Be Kind isn't seasonal. It's a signal that you carry this all year, that the giving doesn't stop when the tree comes down.

Wear it and mean every bit of it.

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Boxier fit
Soft and breathable
Crew neck
Mid weight - 180 GSM
100% combed cotton
Preshrunk to minimise shrinkage
Ethically made in WRAP certified factories

LOOK AFTER ME:

The label may be small, but it's important.

Machine wash cold
Line dry in shade
Iron low heat
Wash with like colours
Do not bleach
Do not tumble dry
We recommend washing before first wear, especially for darker colours

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Name: Xmas Be Kind T-Shirt Navy
Brand: Selfawear
SKU: SHIRTS-10225-01
Price: 24.95 AUD
Availability: InStock

Unlike traditional clothing, Selfawear clothing serves a deeper purpose. All of our thoughtfully curated products and collections are designed with the intention to positively impact yourself and others.

We understand that the way we think shapes our world around us, and we know you do too.

You belong to a community of Changemakers!

We uplift others and encouraging acts of kindness. Selfawear transforms your outfit of the day into a statement of self-expression.

Whatever and wherever the day brings you – you are wearing your true self. Even more importantly, you make space for heartfelt conversations and connections.

Leave a positive impact on the world around you.

Wearing Selfawear inspires thoughtful introspection and significant transformation, all without saying a word. Every step in your day is a step towards meaningful change. With Selfawear in your closet (or your gym bag!) kindness is always in fashion.

Picked & packed with love in our Burleigh Heads warehouse.

Good vibes and sunshine are abundant here on the Gold Coast, and we believe that energy is infused into every order we pack!

What makes our tee's so special?

Made from soft and silky cotton, our signature tee was designed to have a slightly boxier fit – perfect for any shape or size.

Our tees are built to be highly durable and can survive many washes. Allowing you to move freely and intentionally throughout your day.

Our tees are so much more than just clothing. Every time you wear them, you are living true to your values and purpose.

Join the Community of Changemakers

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/ 5

based on 3067 reviews

This tee is super soft & so comfy. I absolutely love it. 💕 This tee is super soft & so comfy. I absolutely love it. 💕 This tee is super soft & so comfy. I absolutely love it. 💕

Sarah E

I love this shirt! It spreads a great message and it’s very comfortable m. I love this shirt! It spreads a great message and it’s very comfortable m. I love this shirt! It spreads a great message and it’s very comfortable m.

Jordan D

There quality was much better than I expected, for the shirts and the stickers! I ordered one top and few stickers to see how good they were and ended up buying a bunch more, lucky they had a good sale on 😇 There quality was much better than I expected, for the shirts and the stickers! I ordered one top and few stickers to see how good they were and ended up buying a bunch more, lucky they had a good sale on 😇 There quality was much better than I expected, for the shirts and the stickers! I ordered one top and few stickers to see how good they were and ended up buying a bunch more, lucky they had a good sale on 😇

Jaime J

Kindness is such a powerful gift we can give . As a mental health educator it’s really what it all boils down to in life . The t-shirt material is lovely to wear as well . my friend who I had not seen for 5 months turned up in the same tshirt ! 😜 Kindness is such a powerful gift we can give . As a mental health educator it’s really what it all boils down to in life . The t-shirt material is lovely to wear as well . my friend who I had not seen for 5 months turned up in the same tshirt ! 😜 Kindness is such a powerful gift we can give . As a mental health educator it’s really what it all boils down to in life . The t-shirt material is lovely to wear as well . my friend who I had not seen for 5 months turned up in the same tshirt ! 😜

Jules H

Love dealing with your company, I always get compliments on the shirts, items are always great value for money and true to size. Would always recommend your products to everyone. Love dealing with your company, I always get compliments on the shirts, items are always great value for money and true to size. Would always recommend your products to everyone. Love dealing with your company, I always get compliments on the shirts, items are always great value for money and true to size. Would always recommend your products to everyone.

Sheryl R

Fabulous. I have bought the 'be kind' shirts previously and wear them very often. My daughter asked if she could have one too, so I popped back online for hers (and another for myself). We both love them. It's a sneaky way to spread an awesome message. Fabulous. I have bought the 'be kind' shirts previously and wear them very often. My daughter asked if she could have one too, so I popped back online for hers (and another for myself). We both love them. It's a sneaky way to spread an awesome message. Fabulous. I have bought the 'be kind' shirts previously and wear them very often. My daughter asked if she could have one too, so I popped back online for hers (and another for myself). We both love them. It's a sneaky way to spread an awesome message.

Kelsie A

This tee is super soft & so comfy. I absolutely love it. 💕 This tee is super soft & so comfy. I absolutely love it. 💕 This tee is super soft & so comfy. I absolutely love it. 💕

Sarah E

I love this shirt! It spreads a great message and it’s very comfortable m. I love this shirt! It spreads a great message and it’s very comfortable m. I love this shirt! It spreads a great message and it’s very comfortable m.

Jordan D

There quality was much better than I expected, for the shirts and the stickers! I ordered one top and few stickers to see how good they were and ended up buying a bunch more, lucky they had a good sale on 😇 There quality was much better than I expected, for the shirts and the stickers! I ordered one top and few stickers to see how good they were and ended up buying a bunch more, lucky they had a good sale on 😇 There quality was much better than I expected, for the shirts and the stickers! I ordered one top and few stickers to see how good they were and ended up buying a bunch more, lucky they had a good sale on 😇

Jaime J

Kindness is such a powerful gift we can give . As a mental health educator it’s really what it all boils down to in life . The t-shirt material is lovely to wear as well . my friend who I had not seen for 5 months turned up in the same tshirt ! 😜 Kindness is such a powerful gift we can give . As a mental health educator it’s really what it all boils down to in life . The t-shirt material is lovely to wear as well . my friend who I had not seen for 5 months turned up in the same tshirt ! 😜 Kindness is such a powerful gift we can give . As a mental health educator it’s really what it all boils down to in life . The t-shirt material is lovely to wear as well . my friend who I had not seen for 5 months turned up in the same tshirt ! 😜

Jules H

Love dealing with your company, I always get compliments on the shirts, items are always great value for money and true to size. Would always recommend your products to everyone. Love dealing with your company, I always get compliments on the shirts, items are always great value for money and true to size. Would always recommend your products to everyone. Love dealing with your company, I always get compliments on the shirts, items are always great value for money and true to size. Would always recommend your products to everyone.

Sheryl R

Fabulous. I have bought the 'be kind' shirts previously and wear them very often. My daughter asked if she could have one too, so I popped back online for hers (and another for myself). We both love them. It's a sneaky way to spread an awesome message. Fabulous. I have bought the 'be kind' shirts previously and wear them very often. My daughter asked if she could have one too, so I popped back online for hers (and another for myself). We both love them. It's a sneaky way to spread an awesome message. Fabulous. I have bought the 'be kind' shirts previously and wear them very often. My daughter asked if she could have one too, so I popped back online for hers (and another for myself). We both love them. It's a sneaky way to spread an awesome message.

Kelsie A

This tee is super soft & so comfy. I absolutely love it. 💕 This tee is super soft & so comfy. I absolutely love it. 💕 This tee is super soft & so comfy. I absolutely love it. 💕

Sarah E

I love this shirt! It spreads a great message and it’s very comfortable m. I love this shirt! It spreads a great message and it’s very comfortable m. I love this shirt! It spreads a great message and it’s very comfortable m.

Jordan D

There quality was much better than I expected, for the shirts and the stickers! I ordered one top and few stickers to see how good they were and ended up buying a bunch more, lucky they had a good sale on 😇 There quality was much better than I expected, for the shirts and the stickers! I ordered one top and few stickers to see how good they were and ended up buying a bunch more, lucky they had a good sale on 😇 There quality was much better than I expected, for the shirts and the stickers! I ordered one top and few stickers to see how good they were and ended up buying a bunch more, lucky they had a good sale on 😇

Jaime J

Kindness is such a powerful gift we can give . As a mental health educator it’s really what it all boils down to in life . The t-shirt material is lovely to wear as well . my friend who I had not seen for 5 months turned up in the same tshirt ! 😜 Kindness is such a powerful gift we can give . As a mental health educator it’s really what it all boils down to in life . The t-shirt material is lovely to wear as well . my friend who I had not seen for 5 months turned up in the same tshirt ! 😜 Kindness is such a powerful gift we can give . As a mental health educator it’s really what it all boils down to in life . The t-shirt material is lovely to wear as well . my friend who I had not seen for 5 months turned up in the same tshirt ! 😜

Jules H

Love dealing with your company, I always get compliments on the shirts, items are always great value for money and true to size. Would always recommend your products to everyone. Love dealing with your company, I always get compliments on the shirts, items are always great value for money and true to size. Would always recommend your products to everyone. Love dealing with your company, I always get compliments on the shirts, items are always great value for money and true to size. Would always recommend your products to everyone.

Sheryl R

Fabulous. I have bought the 'be kind' shirts previously and wear them very often. My daughter asked if she could have one too, so I popped back online for hers (and another for myself). We both love them. It's a sneaky way to spread an awesome message. Fabulous. I have bought the 'be kind' shirts previously and wear them very often. My daughter asked if she could have one too, so I popped back online for hers (and another for myself). We both love them. It's a sneaky way to spread an awesome message. Fabulous. I have bought the 'be kind' shirts previously and wear them very often. My daughter asked if she could have one too, so I popped back online for hers (and another for myself). We both love them. It's a sneaky way to spread an awesome message.

Kelsie A

This tee is super soft & so comfy. I absolutely love it. 💕 This tee is super soft & so comfy. I absolutely love it. 💕 This tee is super soft & so comfy. I absolutely love it. 💕

Sarah E

I love this shirt! It spreads a great message and it’s very comfortable m. I love this shirt! It spreads a great message and it’s very comfortable m. I love this shirt! It spreads a great message and it’s very comfortable m.

Jordan D

There quality was much better than I expected, for the shirts and the stickers! I ordered one top and few stickers to see how good they were and ended up buying a bunch more, lucky they had a good sale on 😇 There quality was much better than I expected, for the shirts and the stickers! I ordered one top and few stickers to see how good they were and ended up buying a bunch more, lucky they had a good sale on 😇 There quality was much better than I expected, for the shirts and the stickers! I ordered one top and few stickers to see how good they were and ended up buying a bunch more, lucky they had a good sale on 😇

Jaime J

Kindness is such a powerful gift we can give . As a mental health educator it’s really what it all boils down to in life . The t-shirt material is lovely to wear as well . my friend who I had not seen for 5 months turned up in the same tshirt ! 😜 Kindness is such a powerful gift we can give . As a mental health educator it’s really what it all boils down to in life . The t-shirt material is lovely to wear as well . my friend who I had not seen for 5 months turned up in the same tshirt ! 😜 Kindness is such a powerful gift we can give . As a mental health educator it’s really what it all boils down to in life . The t-shirt material is lovely to wear as well . my friend who I had not seen for 5 months turned up in the same tshirt ! 😜

Jules H

Love dealing with your company, I always get compliments on the shirts, items are always great value for money and true to size. Would always recommend your products to everyone. Love dealing with your company, I always get compliments on the shirts, items are always great value for money and true to size. Would always recommend your products to everyone. Love dealing with your company, I always get compliments on the shirts, items are always great value for money and true to size. Would always recommend your products to everyone.

Sheryl R

Fabulous. I have bought the 'be kind' shirts previously and wear them very often. My daughter asked if she could have one too, so I popped back online for hers (and another for myself). We both love them. It's a sneaky way to spread an awesome message. Fabulous. I have bought the 'be kind' shirts previously and wear them very often. My daughter asked if she could have one too, so I popped back online for hers (and another for myself). We both love them. It's a sneaky way to spread an awesome message. Fabulous. I have bought the 'be kind' shirts previously and wear them very often. My daughter asked if she could have one too, so I popped back online for hers (and another for myself). We both love them. It's a sneaky way to spread an awesome message.

Kelsie A

This tee is super soft & so comfy. I absolutely love it. 💕 This tee is super soft & so comfy. I absolutely love it. 💕 This tee is super soft & so comfy. I absolutely love it. 💕

Sarah E

I love this shirt! It spreads a great message and it’s very comfortable m. I love this shirt! It spreads a great message and it’s very comfortable m. I love this shirt! It spreads a great message and it’s very comfortable m.

Jordan D

There quality was much better than I expected, for the shirts and the stickers! I ordered one top and few stickers to see how good they were and ended up buying a bunch more, lucky they had a good sale on 😇 There quality was much better than I expected, for the shirts and the stickers! I ordered one top and few stickers to see how good they were and ended up buying a bunch more, lucky they had a good sale on 😇 There quality was much better than I expected, for the shirts and the stickers! I ordered one top and few stickers to see how good they were and ended up buying a bunch more, lucky they had a good sale on 😇

Jaime J

Kindness is such a powerful gift we can give . As a mental health educator it’s really what it all boils down to in life . The t-shirt material is lovely to wear as well . my friend who I had not seen for 5 months turned up in the same tshirt ! 😜 Kindness is such a powerful gift we can give . As a mental health educator it’s really what it all boils down to in life . The t-shirt material is lovely to wear as well . my friend who I had not seen for 5 months turned up in the same tshirt ! 😜 Kindness is such a powerful gift we can give . As a mental health educator it’s really what it all boils down to in life . The t-shirt material is lovely to wear as well . my friend who I had not seen for 5 months turned up in the same tshirt ! 😜

Jules H

Love dealing with your company, I always get compliments on the shirts, items are always great value for money and true to size. Would always recommend your products to everyone. Love dealing with your company, I always get compliments on the shirts, items are always great value for money and true to size. Would always recommend your products to everyone. Love dealing with your company, I always get compliments on the shirts, items are always great value for money and true to size. Would always recommend your products to everyone.

Sheryl R

Fabulous. I have bought the 'be kind' shirts previously and wear them very often. My daughter asked if she could have one too, so I popped back online for hers (and another for myself). We both love them. It's a sneaky way to spread an awesome message. Fabulous. I have bought the 'be kind' shirts previously and wear them very often. My daughter asked if she could have one too, so I popped back online for hers (and another for myself). We both love them. It's a sneaky way to spread an awesome message. Fabulous. I have bought the 'be kind' shirts previously and wear them very often. My daughter asked if she could have one too, so I popped back online for hers (and another for myself). We both love them. It's a sneaky way to spread an awesome message.

Kelsie A

This tee is super soft & so comfy. I absolutely love it. 💕 This tee is super soft & so comfy. I absolutely love it. 💕 This tee is super soft & so comfy. I absolutely love it. 💕

Sarah E

I love this shirt! It spreads a great message and it’s very comfortable m. I love this shirt! It spreads a great message and it’s very comfortable m. I love this shirt! It spreads a great message and it’s very comfortable m.

Jordan D

There quality was much better than I expected, for the shirts and the stickers! I ordered one top and few stickers to see how good they were and ended up buying a bunch more, lucky they had a good sale on 😇 There quality was much better than I expected, for the shirts and the stickers! I ordered one top and few stickers to see how good they were and ended up buying a bunch more, lucky they had a good sale on 😇 There quality was much better than I expected, for the shirts and the stickers! I ordered one top and few stickers to see how good they were and ended up buying a bunch more, lucky they had a good sale on 😇

Jaime J

Kindness is such a powerful gift we can give . As a mental health educator it’s really what it all boils down to in life . The t-shirt material is lovely to wear as well . my friend who I had not seen for 5 months turned up in the same tshirt ! 😜 Kindness is such a powerful gift we can give . As a mental health educator it’s really what it all boils down to in life . The t-shirt material is lovely to wear as well . my friend who I had not seen for 5 months turned up in the same tshirt ! 😜 Kindness is such a powerful gift we can give . As a mental health educator it’s really what it all boils down to in life . The t-shirt material is lovely to wear as well . my friend who I had not seen for 5 months turned up in the same tshirt ! 😜

Jules H

Love dealing with your company, I always get compliments on the shirts, items are always great value for money and true to size. Would always recommend your products to everyone. Love dealing with your company, I always get compliments on the shirts, items are always great value for money and true to size. Would always recommend your products to everyone. Love dealing with your company, I always get compliments on the shirts, items are always great value for money and true to size. Would always recommend your products to everyone.

Sheryl R

Fabulous. I have bought the 'be kind' shirts previously and wear them very often. My daughter asked if she could have one too, so I popped back online for hers (and another for myself). We both love them. It's a sneaky way to spread an awesome message. Fabulous. I have bought the 'be kind' shirts previously and wear them very often. My daughter asked if she could have one too, so I popped back online for hers (and another for myself). We both love them. It's a sneaky way to spread an awesome message. Fabulous. I have bought the 'be kind' shirts previously and wear them very often. My daughter asked if she could have one too, so I popped back online for hers (and another for myself). We both love them. It's a sneaky way to spread an awesome message.

Kelsie A

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Xmas Be Kind T-Shirt Navy

She brings the plates over before you've finished your sentence. She tops up your glass without being asked. She's already thought about the parking, the dietary thing, the cousin who struggles with big groups.

Give your clothing a deeper purpose.

You belong to a community of Changemakers!

Leave a positive impact on the world around you.

Picked & packed with love in our Burleigh Heads warehouse.

What makes our tee's so special?

Join the Community of Changemakers

Frequently Asked Questions

Where will my order be shipped from?

How long does shipping take within Australia?

Is Selfawear Bio-Friendly?

How do I choose the right size?

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She brings the plates over before you've finished your sentence. She tops up your glass without being asked. She's already thought about the parking, the dietary thing, the cousin who struggles with big groups.

Give your clothing a deeper purpose.

You belong to a community of Changemakers!

Leave a positive impact on the world around you.

Picked & packed with love in our Burleigh Heads warehouse.

What makes our tee's so special?

Join the Community of Changemakers

Frequently Asked Questions

Where will my order be shipped from?

How long does shipping take within Australia?

Is Selfawear Bio-Friendly?

How do I choose the right size?

She brings the plates over before you've finished your sentence. She tops up your glass without being asked. She's already thought about the parking, the dietary thing, the cousin who struggles with big groups.